How To Teach Them To Believe In Themselves
Coaches and parents are famous for saying: “You need to believe in yourself."From my work with countless athletes, who tell me things that they would never tell their parents, the kids DO NOT FULLY KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS LET ALONE HOW TO DO IT.
What does work, in reality, is to give the kids an understanding of how their mind operates so they can take control of it using the analogy of a car.
The core of this meeting is to get the kids out of the victim mentality… that they are at the mercy of their thoughts and feelings.
The core of this meeting is to get the kids out of the victim mentality… that they are at the mercy of their thoughts and feelings.
We don’t wait to fail in competition before we decide to work on the physical skill that was needed and so it is that we also don’t wait to fail to work on our mental skill that was needed.
In this meeting, we begin using a mental toughness journal and a theme that runs through this whole training: